Question & Answer

I've changed this topic into a question and answer thread so we can all use it.

What is the deal with him?

Hey ya'll, what ya think about this here? >>>

I have this best friend whos a major JD fan like me, we've gone to premieres etc. We were supa-close. Then last year she got this boyfriend, who seemed like an honestly nice guy. I noticed right about then, ive stopped hearing from my friend in general, which i thought was normal because shes in a new relationship and all. But when she did coome round, she was tellin me that her bf was puting her down about liking JD and that if she loved him shes stop being a fan of JD ( which she was doing waaaay before we even met) he has even gone as far as going on her pc and eliminating al her JD photos and even my eamils ive sent just incase there was mention of Johnny depp etc. Gawd forbid we are out in public or watchin the telly and an advert for one of Johnny's films comes on,,,he goes ballistic,,very much so, to the point shes in tears. its not like she knows JD personally or anything, why would he feel this threatened by a celeberty??

Its not like she don't have other things in her life she don't enjoy but he insist that teh love of Depp goes away and she is slowly pushing me away as well because it reminds her. I dont know how to be there for her anymore. Its cool if shes growing out of JD,,, but its not cool to not enjoy him because an idiot tell her she can't or shouldnt. i'm i being ovely sensitive?????

That guy is more than insecure! He's got the lowest self-esteem ever, but if she lets him, he will go on!

Just picture it... if he's jealous, because he is really jealous of the fact that she likes and admires Johnny, what about real guys she hangs out with? I mean.. just friends, coworkers, classmates, etc?

He's got the problem, but she's feeding it, so she has to put a hand on his eyes and say "heeeyy.. what are you doing?" And she has to do it right now before this comes worst with time.

You definitely aren't being over-sensitive. This guy sounds like an absolute jerk, is she still with him?
I can't say anything cause she's not gonna leave him just because I say so, but she really should. Most people feel a tad envious over celebrity crushes, but this is way too far. He's controlling her, and it's not right. I understand if he wants her to calm down the obsession, maybe not talk about it to him, but this is over the line.

I'm sorry it makes me really angry, and the fact she's getting upset and pushing you away, it's not right.

Daniela & Sarah> Amen Amen Amen


Ok I'm wit ya there...I just have to stop and check myself too, be cause sometimes i'm too sensitive.. but yall are spot on. and yea, she still with that fool. The smartest thing she did concerning him was not move in with him when he asked. but teh fact stil remains, that he rules over her exsistance cus SHE LETS HIM like ya said. And that upsets me,but not much I can do about it.. but I have told her how I felt and we even had a few rows about it. Like i said its not even about JD in teh bigger picture its about a fellow getting his jollies by puttin himself over someone whos weaker, emotionally etc. Wots worse is hes haveing a say in when she can see her family,,especially her dad. but as i've said JD is one little thing, but i'm afriad he may turn physical,,or may have already.
And the other thing is i'm the only person she used to talk about JD with and maybe her dad because hes a fan too, So its not like her idiot bf had to hear about it,, he just didnt liek teh fact that JD has teh ability to make her smile no matter wot. Johnny has always been a bright spot in both our lives.<3 Her Bf is just street-rat -crazy. *lol*

Exactly
But nobody learns by followinf other people's advices. We all have to live in order to learn. And after she lives and have other experiences with him, she will learn a lot more! Maybe he's not a bad guy and he just gots the selfsteem underground.

So the best thing you can do is just leave her alone when it comes to this topic. You told her already what your thoughts are!

Yeah, you can't push her anymore, it's her own decision now. Just be there for her when she falls, okay?

Too true.<3

She's going to figure it out sooner or later that this kind of relationship is volatile (sp?)

Hopefully, it's sooner.

Like the others said, you did the best you can do. Now it's her choice whether or not she wants to make a change.

Yip I agree with what everyone has said, she's bound to realise in time how much he's putting her down & changing her, but she's the one that has to do something about it, no one else & it's best if she does it sooner rather than later coz no woman should be put down & controlled by a man like that, but until she does do something, there's pretty much nothing else you can do

Thanks guys<3 I thought I did the best i could too, just needed that extra confirmation I suppose. *warm smilz* Again thanks all around xxxxxx


PS> Oprah 'n' Dr.Phil has nutin on ya'll *lol*

We should have a JDW show.

How would that go?

I have a one Question.
Where can buy "johny Depp Bag" or "Ninth Gate Bag" ?
(Well, Shoulder bag..)

lately, Everyday i find "Johny Depp Bag"... Google... Bing... Every..

Somebody help me !!!!

Try ebay or typing it into google.

Sarah wrote:

Try ebay or typing it into google.

Thanks reply.

I find few day "Johnny depp bag" and "ninth gate bag" in Google, Bing, Ebay, Amazon..

But, finaly... i can't find.. (i don't find ? // Sorry my English)

I'm sorry, I don't understand. You found one?